油腻： 

 "油腻或许指都是，随着年龄的增加，因为心力不足以支持深入共情，所以只好停留在表面上的客气应答，面带微笑但是内心封闭。“ 

心力： 

”因为心力足够，有能力去共情和理解，再加上决断力，就能迅速给出回应"。 

- 李翔



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